Breakeven Janine
READ: Dear Ex ni Janine Tugonon
Hearing Janine's controversial way of breaking up with her boyfriend on national tv, TAKE NOTE: NATIONAL TV at sa KRISTV pa! I curiously browsed and watch the controversial video.
WATCH:
I used to admire her because of her wit that made her the Ms. Universe First Runner Up. But that changed when I watched and heard what she said about her boyfriend and their relationship. Well, at least for me, she seemed to change after winning the pageant. Maybe, at one point, things will really change. But, siguro naman, not to the point that she has to give up even a single person she used to know in her life before the pageant.
FACT: She's beautiful, intelligent and she deserves to be respected. Ooops, pero I believe after what she's done and shown to the public, medyo bumaba ang tingin ng tao sa kanya. She's being criticized for what she did. And she doesn't get everyone's sympathy. Yes, she's still on the limelight. Pero this time, not because of her victory as Ms. Universe 1st Runner Up, but because of her controversial break up with now ex-boyfriend because of the rumored 'ligawan' with The Script lead vocalist.
Don't get me wrong. A girl who is pretty and appealing and intelligent is really an eye-catcher. Lalo na in her achievement, marami talaga ang hahanga sa kanya. Marami ang naghahangad na maging katulad nya. Oo, isa na ko dun. Iba talaga ang paghanga ko sa kanya dati. Nganga ako when I see her. And just like her, I know how much flattering it is to be admired by so many guys, lalo na when they got the courage to say it in front of you. Nakakahanga talaga. I know because, hindi naman sa pagmamayabang, pero I've been there too many times. Even when I have a boyfriend, there were really guys na nagpapacute, nakikipagkaibigan kuno, nagsasabi na hanga o may gusto sila. I don't why or if they were serious. But just the fact that they've got the courage to come and say it to my face or through any other ways makes my heart jump in flatter. Simpleng tao palang yang mga yan. What more kung artista yan? What more kung ako si Janine at ang mag-aadmit o magsasabing humahanga saken e ung lead vocalist ng the Script? Hanga palang 'yon ha. Though I don't personally know him, the fact that he's famous, aba, oo naman, 100% pogi points yun. Pero siguro naman, it's not enough to just leave your present relationship behind. Nakipagtweet lang sayo, inlove ka na agad? Otherwise, it's your love for your partner that is not enough to resist temptations. Sabi nga, 'ang mundo ay isang malaking Quiapo'. I'd admit, nakikipagkaibigan ako, nakikipag usap, humahanga sa ibang lalaki. Pero, siguro naman hindi ko napabayaan ung relationship ko with my boyfriend. I've never been confused of my feelings about them and him. Napalapit ako, oo, but not enough to say I've fallen in love with them and not to the point that I can exchange the relationship with him. Well, siguro nga, magkaiba kame.
I don't know if it's right to say this, but, I pity Jaypee, Janine's now ex-boyfriend. Not only about being embarassed on national TV, but also because of the fact that Janine is willing to give up what they had for a year, for an unsure relationship with the famous singer. He wasn't even able to say a word when Janine said they broke up. Worst, Janine didn't hesitate to share being connected to Mr. The Script! NKKLK! But at the same time, I admire him. I've seen his pain as Janine talk about Mr. The Script and confidently tell everyone about the break up. He was broken. Kung salamin sya, nagkalat na sya sa sahig. But he chose not to say anything na ikakasira ni Janine. Ni hindi sya nagrereact habang busy si Janine sa pagkillig remembering Mr. The Script. Ang sakit kaya ng sinabi ni Janine. Wapak!
Ang akin lang, if you have personal issues, why not try to manage to keep it to yourselves? At least not that kind of surprise. Ako lang talaga kase ung nahiya para kay Jaypee. Or at least, not with Kris Aquino, we all know her.
TO JANINE: I know you won't read this but I wish you'll realized what you've done to your boyfriend. He's maybe not gwapo but looking at him, I can see a heart that will give whatever you desire and the life you deserve.
TO JAYPEE: People's sympathy is on you but that doesn't mean na totally ikaw ang kawawa. I hope you wake up to the fact that this is a test to know your girl and the relationship you have. It's up to you on whatever your decision will be.
ADVICE:
1. Love is not only to show the world that you have someone on your side - someone who treats you special, gives everything you wanted, and supports all your endeavors. And it needs not to be famous, most specifically. LOVE should be unconditional - no excuses, no specific criteria. Just simply no other than love.
2. It takes two to have a lasting relationship. Give and take. Hindi puro give, hindi rin naman puro take. Nakakapagod ang puro give kahit sabihin mo pang ikaw ang pinakagalanteng tao sa mundo. Ganun din ang puro take, hindi ka ba nakokonsensya?
3. In a relationship, there will always be temptations. Hindi lang naman kase kayong dalawa ang tao sa mundo. You also have your friends, and you still have your family. Imposibleng wala kang makikilala at walang magpapakilala sa inyong dalawa. It's just a matter of commitment.
4. Sa love, keme ang age at maturity. It's how you handle things individually and together. So whether may age difference kayo o wala, it will still end sa 'commitment'.
5. You definitely know what you deserve. So huwag ka ng magbulag bulagan pa. If you can still see some hope, go and work things out. But when one of you gives up, be open to let go. After all, naniniwala akong wala naman na ding mangyayari kung isa nalang ang mapilit na magwowork for the relationship. One day, baka magising ka lang with regrets that the time you've spent trying to work it out (na wala namang pinatunguhan) was only a waste of time. Kase, you also ended up parting ways. Sabagay, kung ganun mo talaga sya kamahal, you'll never give up easily. Just come to think of it, you also need to love yourself.
6. Lastly, what's said and done is SAID AND DONE. There may be second chances, pero kasi at one point, hindi mo na mababawi kung ano man ang napakawalan mo na, kahit na ano pa ang sabihin o gawin mo. So at the time you have to decide, decide at once at PANINDIGAN mo. Breaking up doesn't and will never define you at all. And the pain you'd feel? Ang masasabi ko lang, time heals all wounds.
There's a perfect timing for everything. And as what I've always remembered, God will never let you put something down if he won't have something better for you. Just believe.
Love is not what is seen but what is felt inside. If it's meant to be, whatever happens, it's for YOU.
Most of all, fall in love and give your best. But also LOVE YOURSELF. ♥
Hearing Janine's controversial way of breaking up with her boyfriend on national tv, TAKE NOTE: NATIONAL TV at sa KRISTV pa! I curiously browsed and watch the controversial video.
WATCH:
I used to admire her because of her wit that made her the Ms. Universe First Runner Up. But that changed when I watched and heard what she said about her boyfriend and their relationship. Well, at least for me, she seemed to change after winning the pageant. Maybe, at one point, things will really change. But, siguro naman, not to the point that she has to give up even a single person she used to know in her life before the pageant.
FACT: She's beautiful, intelligent and she deserves to be respected. Ooops, pero I believe after what she's done and shown to the public, medyo bumaba ang tingin ng tao sa kanya. She's being criticized for what she did. And she doesn't get everyone's sympathy. Yes, she's still on the limelight. Pero this time, not because of her victory as Ms. Universe 1st Runner Up, but because of her controversial break up with now ex-boyfriend because of the rumored 'ligawan' with The Script lead vocalist.
Don't get me wrong. A girl who is pretty and appealing and intelligent is really an eye-catcher. Lalo na in her achievement, marami talaga ang hahanga sa kanya. Marami ang naghahangad na maging katulad nya. Oo, isa na ko dun. Iba talaga ang paghanga ko sa kanya dati. Nganga ako when I see her. And just like her, I know how much flattering it is to be admired by so many guys, lalo na when they got the courage to say it in front of you. Nakakahanga talaga. I know because, hindi naman sa pagmamayabang, pero I've been there too many times. Even when I have a boyfriend, there were really guys na nagpapacute, nakikipagkaibigan kuno, nagsasabi na hanga o may gusto sila. I don't why or if they were serious. But just the fact that they've got the courage to come and say it to my face or through any other ways makes my heart jump in flatter. Simpleng tao palang yang mga yan. What more kung artista yan? What more kung ako si Janine at ang mag-aadmit o magsasabing humahanga saken e ung lead vocalist ng the Script? Hanga palang 'yon ha. Though I don't personally know him, the fact that he's famous, aba, oo naman, 100% pogi points yun. Pero siguro naman, it's not enough to just leave your present relationship behind. Nakipagtweet lang sayo, inlove ka na agad? Otherwise, it's your love for your partner that is not enough to resist temptations. Sabi nga, 'ang mundo ay isang malaking Quiapo'. I'd admit, nakikipagkaibigan ako, nakikipag usap, humahanga sa ibang lalaki. Pero, siguro naman hindi ko napabayaan ung relationship ko with my boyfriend. I've never been confused of my feelings about them and him. Napalapit ako, oo, but not enough to say I've fallen in love with them and not to the point that I can exchange the relationship with him. Well, siguro nga, magkaiba kame.
I don't know if it's right to say this, but, I pity Jaypee, Janine's now ex-boyfriend. Not only about being embarassed on national TV, but also because of the fact that Janine is willing to give up what they had for a year, for an unsure relationship with the famous singer. He wasn't even able to say a word when Janine said they broke up. Worst, Janine didn't hesitate to share being connected to Mr. The Script! NKKLK! But at the same time, I admire him. I've seen his pain as Janine talk about Mr. The Script and confidently tell everyone about the break up. He was broken. Kung salamin sya, nagkalat na sya sa sahig. But he chose not to say anything na ikakasira ni Janine. Ni hindi sya nagrereact habang busy si Janine sa pagkillig remembering Mr. The Script. Ang sakit kaya ng sinabi ni Janine. Wapak!
Ang akin lang, if you have personal issues, why not try to manage to keep it to yourselves? At least not that kind of surprise. Ako lang talaga kase ung nahiya para kay Jaypee. Or at least, not with Kris Aquino, we all know her.
TO JANINE: I know you won't read this but I wish you'll realized what you've done to your boyfriend. He's maybe not gwapo but looking at him, I can see a heart that will give whatever you desire and the life you deserve.
TO JAYPEE: People's sympathy is on you but that doesn't mean na totally ikaw ang kawawa. I hope you wake up to the fact that this is a test to know your girl and the relationship you have. It's up to you on whatever your decision will be.
ADVICE:
1. Love is not only to show the world that you have someone on your side - someone who treats you special, gives everything you wanted, and supports all your endeavors. And it needs not to be famous, most specifically. LOVE should be unconditional - no excuses, no specific criteria. Just simply no other than love.
2. It takes two to have a lasting relationship. Give and take. Hindi puro give, hindi rin naman puro take. Nakakapagod ang puro give kahit sabihin mo pang ikaw ang pinakagalanteng tao sa mundo. Ganun din ang puro take, hindi ka ba nakokonsensya?
3. In a relationship, there will always be temptations. Hindi lang naman kase kayong dalawa ang tao sa mundo. You also have your friends, and you still have your family. Imposibleng wala kang makikilala at walang magpapakilala sa inyong dalawa. It's just a matter of commitment.
4. Sa love, keme ang age at maturity. It's how you handle things individually and together. So whether may age difference kayo o wala, it will still end sa 'commitment'.
5. You definitely know what you deserve. So huwag ka ng magbulag bulagan pa. If you can still see some hope, go and work things out. But when one of you gives up, be open to let go. After all, naniniwala akong wala naman na ding mangyayari kung isa nalang ang mapilit na magwowork for the relationship. One day, baka magising ka lang with regrets that the time you've spent trying to work it out (na wala namang pinatunguhan) was only a waste of time. Kase, you also ended up parting ways. Sabagay, kung ganun mo talaga sya kamahal, you'll never give up easily. Just come to think of it, you also need to love yourself.
6. Lastly, what's said and done is SAID AND DONE. There may be second chances, pero kasi at one point, hindi mo na mababawi kung ano man ang napakawalan mo na, kahit na ano pa ang sabihin o gawin mo. So at the time you have to decide, decide at once at PANINDIGAN mo. Breaking up doesn't and will never define you at all. And the pain you'd feel? Ang masasabi ko lang, time heals all wounds.
There's a perfect timing for everything. And as what I've always remembered, God will never let you put something down if he won't have something better for you. Just believe.
Love is not what is seen but what is felt inside. If it's meant to be, whatever happens, it's for YOU.
Most of all, fall in love and give your best. But also LOVE YOURSELF. ♥
- ymhej -
04.18.2013
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